Use this plugin when you need a structured workflow rather than a one-off answer. Its capabilities are organized into focused skills so you can start broad, then go deeper where the work requires it.
Boundaries And Safety
Reply Router
Draft And Tone
Context And Intent
Use cases
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply boundaries and safety to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply reply router to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply draft and tone to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply context and intent to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Skills included
boundaries and safety
Help express boundaries and respond safely to controlling, threatening, or abusive situations.
What it helps with
Use Boundaries And Safety to turn a focused Relationship Reply Coach task into a clearer, repeatable workflow.
Example use
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply boundaries and safety to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Prompt pattern
Use Boundaries And Safety for [specific goal]. Context: [relevant files, audience, inputs, or constraints]. Return: [desired format] and flag uncertainties.
reply router
Clarify the user's relationship context and desired outcome, then route to reflection, drafting, or safety support.
What it helps with
Use Reply Router to turn a focused Relationship Reply Coach task into a clearer, repeatable workflow.
Example use
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply reply router to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Prompt pattern
Use Reply Router for [specific goal]. Context: [relevant files, audience, inputs, or constraints]. Return: [desired format] and flag uncertainties.
draft and tone
Draft natural, user-voiced replies with selectable warmth, directness, and length.
What it helps with
Use Draft And Tone to turn a focused Relationship Reply Coach task into a clearer, repeatable workflow.
Example use
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply draft and tone to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Prompt pattern
Use Draft And Tone for [specific goal]. Context: [relevant files, audience, inputs, or constraints]. Return: [desired format] and flag uncertainties.
context and intent
Help interpret a conversation cautiously and identify the user's needs and communication goal.
What it helps with
Use Context And Intent to turn a focused Relationship Reply Coach task into a clearer, repeatable workflow.
Example use
Ask Relationship Reply Coach to apply context and intent to a real project, document, or decision and explain the assumptions it used.
Prompt pattern
Use Context And Intent for [specific goal]. Context: [relevant files, audience, inputs, or constraints]. Return: [desired format] and flag uncertainties.
How to use Relationship Reply Coach
Start with a specific outcome and provide the relevant context.
Ask the plugin to show its assumptions and structure the result.
Review the first result, add missing constraints, and request a focused revision.
Save the final output in the format your workflow needs.
Example prompts
Help me use Relationship Reply Coach to achieve [goal]. Context: [details]. Return [format] and list assumptions.
Apply the Relationship Reply Coach workflow to this input: [paste input]. First explain your approach, then produce the result.
Review this result from Relationship Reply Coach against these criteria: [criteria]. Recommend the smallest improvements.
How to get maximum benefit
Name the audience, goal, inputs, constraints, and output format.
Give the plugin one clear job per request before expanding scope.
Ask it to identify uncertainty rather than filling gaps with guesses.
Review important outputs before publishing or acting on them.
Limitations and safe use
Results depend on the quality and completeness of the context provided.
Review important factual, technical, financial, legal, medical, or public-facing outputs before use.
The plugin should support decisions and workflows, not replace qualified human judgment.
Frequently asked questions
What is Relationship Reply Coach?
Relationship Reply Coach is a communication plugin created by The Doers Firm. It includes 4 focused skills for professionals and teams.
How do I get the best results from Relationship Reply Coach?
Give it a specific goal, relevant context, constraints, and a desired output format. Ask it to surface assumptions and revise the result against clear criteria.
Plugin policies and support
Our policies cover The Doers Firm plugins for Codex and ChatGPT. Review the installed version and any connected service permissions before use.
